Wrong. Speaking as a part-time player (switch), even if it is, there's loads of this kind of slave in the world! I don't consider the sex very abusive, but I guess it depends on what you consider abusive. On Reddit, a Disney fan pointed out a lesson in Cinderella that shouldn't be repeated.Cinderella lived in an abusive household where she was treated as a slave to her stepmother and stepsisters. Why? If I've done something really bad he'll usually give me quite a spanking with a paddle. If you don’t like being micromanaged, Amazon is not the right place for you. Although he's more in control of which/how many days I have off, so there's that. I grew to love my current collar as much as the old one, and I have to admit it is a nicer collar. Refer to point 5. We really don't have these 'group sessions' very often, and it's actually really rare for me to do anything with the other girl at all. My master likes to keep his house very clean, so I usually spend a lot of time cleaning everything. Towards the end of chapter 6, as Lennie’s captors advance towards him, Steinbeck gives a brief description, using pathetic fallacy, of the landscape in which the story is unfolding; “Already the sun had left the valley to go climbing up the slopes of the Gablian Mountains, and the hill tops were rosy in the sun.” Senior engineers working tickets all day. Although he's more in control of which/how many days I have off, so there's that. 5 Reasons People End Their Relationship With Their Parent. Amazon is the big league of micromanagement. I've never felt jealous of his other slaves. This is why it is so common that progressive racial programs end up hurting the people they’re written to help most. Has your master ever ordered you to do something that you were unwilling to do? Honestly that might be one of the reasons I'm so drawn to this type of relationship, because I can't really think of any way to be closer to someone than to be perfectly obedient to them and for them to be fully responsible to you (I really need to work to improve my obedience still). My master always decides when/if we have sex, but sometimes I hint to him that I need to be taken care of. He has one other slave that is a guy, and one other slave that is a girl, so of course that affects what things we do with them. Everything is breaking in new and terrible ways all the time. He's never come close to crossing a boundary with me, but different people will have different boundaries so you need to figure them out. I think its completely fair for him to punish me for doing so, as he knows what's best for me and sometimes I really just don't deserve to make the decision if I haven't been a good girl recently. Micromanaging is what “Dive Deep” is really about. 1. Sure, at first a lot of what they did was innovative, but not anymore. Bell curving. Can you describe an average day for you? Then double it. I guess to start I pretty much always wear a collar, except when I'm visiting friends or family he allows me to take it off. They don’t care that you know how to do something better or faster for the customer. Ops. He can be strict, but he's never unfair and he only punishes me when and how I deserve. Principles used as a weapon. One is a plastic ring that goes just inside my mouth and the other has 4 hooks that keep my mouth open. There hasn't been anything that I didn't want to do that he's commanded me to do, but of course there's things that I would prefer to do (or times when I just feel like doing something else) and he would insist otherwise. Is there ever a time you don't enjoy it, or you don't want to do what he is requesting? As I said, I'm rather ignorant on this subject. Attention anyone thinking about working for Amazon! Sometimes we have pretty rough sex, especially if I've been a bit naughty recently. I even only wore the collar when I was with him. I definitely wouldn't have thought I'd be in this situation at all before I started my relationship with my master. Long hours and intense days. If I've been bad, such as not cleaning well enough, instead of this free time he'll give me punishment time, where I either have to do specific chores or sometimes sexual tasks while he's gone. Well I think punishment and humiliation is a separate thing, but I'd imagine many master/slave relationships (including ours) incorporate it at least somewhat. We didn't discuss it beforehand or anything, and when he gave it to me I was kind of surprised and shocked at myself like "Wow.. we're taking this pretty far." I'm perfectly happy to do this but I don't know much about it. Because of that, switching to a slave wasn't terribly difficult, and it wasn't a sudden switch, it was more of a gradual thing. They are constantly behind the curve on scaling, their projects are always late, there is nothing documented, there is no architecture (or even respect for having an architecture or design). But, most of them moved for Amazon, and now they are stuck. They need to search far and wide for people who don’t know or don’t care about what I am telling you. There is no time for architecture, planning, or proper testing. Below are 10 of the most common strategies for reluctance I can think of. I know my master will always keep his responsibilities he has towards me and I know I'm his biggest responsibility. How did the switch happen from just dating to being his slave? Well of course I enjoy being in this relationship, and I've always kind of been submissive. He has 2 other slaves, one male and one female, who he meets generally once a week, maybe 2 tops. Our relationship isn't 24/7, as I usually have 1-2 days off in a week. And, let’s say you get on a team that is doing something cool. I think this is hot as hell, so I have a bunch of questions. Even with all the other companies you could go to that care about you, even a little? You aren’t that dumb. Sometimes we spend it with more play time, other times just relaxing or watching a movie, it really depends on my master's mood. Anyone's welcome to host or participate in an AMA. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Everyone knows you work long hours in most groups at Amazon. I'm 24 years old and live with my master/boyfriend, who is 30. 1. My friends and family don't really know the details at all, but they have mentioned that it seems to them that he's somewhat controlling and they think it's kind of a one sided relationship. Don’t say you didn’t. It’s a horrible place that will ruin your health, your self esteem, your drive, and your relationships. He's a very responsible master and I don't often have to hint to him. I had a part time job at a bookstore that I worked 24-32 hours a week at when I first started my relationship with my master (then just boyfriend), but eventually I just became a stay-at-home sub/slave and my master supports me and provides for me. I wouldn't often voice my preference to something else, and when I do I usually get punished a bit. Amazon has grown way too fast, and everything is brittle and messed up. If your manager doesn’t do it, he’s in trouble. Friends that do not visit every day may be able to make the relationship work better than those that are extremely close. Ops. I saw /u/VeryIntelligent post about being a master, so I figured I'd make a post about being a slave. We do involve toys and 'devices'. No matter that you just moved from Pakistan or whatever.. Tough crap. I actually prefer to wear it because it shows I'm his and really makes me feel most comfortable. Besides that aspect, there's a lot of things that I get from this relationship that people get from more traditional relationships. How did you end up in this relationship? Usually it has involved something with one of his other slaves, but not always. I guess I'd consider the master/slave relationship to have started in earnest when he got me my first collar. Spanking is the only real physical punishment he gives me, and if I'm bad he might spank me a couple times or he might spank me until my bum is a little bruised, depending on how big of a punishment I deserve. When I first became his slave it definitely wasn't a full time thing, and I actually spent more time as typical girlfriend than a slave. When he got me a new collar a few months ago I was kind of disappointed and really didn't want to give it up, but he ordered me to take it off and wear the new one. You are tired when you leave. “Racial justice,” in Critical Race Theory, means getting “justice” for the group , which it says is a social construction , not for the real person, who is just a member of that group. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. Amazon pays a lot. The casual version of /r/IAmA. The sense of being loved and everything. I just started a sexual relationship with a girl who's into punishment and humiliation (directed at herself). Sorry if this is something else entirely. And yes, each team needs to hit the bell curve. Because even though you might all be awesome, some of you are less awesome (not usually technically by the way, you just didn’t kiss the right butt). On some days he'll give me permission to do other stuff, like meet friends for lunch or just go out and do something for myself (or post an AMA on reddit), especially if I've been very good recently. Want an app to anonymously tattle on your coworkers? Ive always wondered how people go from normal relatively vanilla relationships to a slave/master relationship. He doesn't allow us to kiss each other at all. And on and on. This was my first experience with anything like this, and found I really loved it from the start. From Bezos (notorious micromanager) on down, managers are incented to micromanage. I was a little anxious and hesitant, but much more excited. However, keep in mind that with about 1 year average tenure, you are not likely to get that money for long. Still not convinced? Thousands of high sev tickets in many teams. Do any of your friends or family know that you are his slave? Does he always initiate it or do you as well? But it’s the intensity most people don’t know about. I prefer to let him make the decision and he always knows how to please both of us. You are moving and multitasking all day. I never gave specific boundaries, and my master just took it slowly and based on my reaction was able to figure out where to take things and where not to. And I always know that my master will provide for me and take care of me and know what's best for me. We usually don't have much time before he has to leave, so there's not much more I do then. Technical debt is huge, and the environment is too big to ever clean it up. Yes, there is backstabbing, and if you are in the bottom 10% you will be termed “LE” and given a PIP which you aren’t meant to succeed at. Do you ever get jealous that he has other slaves? Also the amount of time I spent as a slave rather than just a submissive girlfriend has increased over time as well, and might increase more as time goes by. No! Otherwise, you go to a group event or a random interview loop and end up in an org-wide hiring queue, where teams with "priority needs" are first in line for staffing. Amazon’s got it! There's never been anything he's ordered me to do that I didn't end up doing. How often do you have to wear a gold bikini? My social life with others probably isn't as active as a lot of other peoples, but I have friends and still see my parents, etc. I saw /u/VeryIntelligent post about being a master, so I figured I'd make a post about being a slave.. When we wake up I usually bring my master coffee and breakfast before he goes to work. My master always eats first, and after he's done he'll put my serving on my plate and I can never have seconds. No respect for experience: At Amazon, it’s about Amazon. Here is a top 11 list of what sucks the most about working at Amazon: Micromanagement. And, you will make those mistakes because you will be working hard and fast, while being tired, and getting constantly graded against the idiotic principles that don’t make sense for mature adults. You need to do it the Amazon way. 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