For me it's very much that I've been trained that women don't want to be approached at work, at the gym, waiting for the bus, etc. I feel confident to walk away from situations and men that don’t serve me, and to give men feedback if they do something I don’t like. i feel so lonely. However, this doesn’t immediately discount women with pixie cuts or bobs as less attractive. In fact, most men won’t see how they subconsciously prefer certain female body types. I realize that we can’t always have it all and finally, I am okay with that. These comments will be removed and you can and will be removed for the subreddit. im not worth anything. I have had a shitty college experience at age 25, Putting Boundaries Up w/ Friends and Then Regretting It. Men and women don’t find the same things attractive. 2. Almost puke at the thought of being with a woman. Men don't want to go in for a kiss and come out looking like they just joined the circus. I go for the girls who make that first interaction easy. too ugly. (55.8 Kg). they would AT LEAST try to have sex with me. No matter how selective a woman might be, some have strict physical attributes from their must-haves list, as an OkCupid study found that women find 80 percent of men unattractive. 8 Questions | By JasmineB98 | Last updated: Nov 6, 2020 | Total Attempts: 5118 . If you don’t flash a smile in a guy’s way, GWWTAY. It is something like this : Girl: Hi Me: Hey, How are you doin’ ? When I was less mature it was because I was too wrapped up in my own insecurities and was afraid she wasn't really as into me as she acted. Women Find 80% Of Men Unattractive, Says Crazy Study. if i was pretty noone would say "hey let's just be friends". This is so depressing. Barret said in his book that men won’t outright admit that they find the 7:10 body ratio most attractive or that they have a prejudice against big women. Don't look for guys in bars, if you are intelligent then you probably aren't what most guys on a night out are looking for. Dear Ugly, Fat Feminists:I'm sorry men don't find you attractive. Men on Reddit have been furiously adding to an Ask Men thread entitled: ‘What is something women think makes them more attractive to men while men think it makes them less attractive?’ The next year I put in the tiniest amount of effort and ended up with my boyfriend of nearly 9 years now. Coming from a former ugly person, it gets better, I promise. The reason is that people think that you are aware of how gorgeous you are and don’t need any reminding about it. I dunno what to do for title but 21M am sad details within, My career has just been ruined due to lockdown, could someone please offer empathy/encouragements/advice on dealing with feelings, but not solutions for the actual situation please, It's so sad I'm only 20 and all I think is about death. Well, guys are just as complicated. In my experience, women have a fairly narrow view of what they consider beautiful in other women. Watch. Men, on the other hand, have a predisposition to find women attractive. Question 21 Do you like parties? If you are removed for being too harsh in posts and you believe it was done unfairly, please message the mods. REDDIT and the ALIEN Logo are registered trademarks of reddit inc. π Rendered by PID 20040 on r2-app-02b3e9ac3f5a31c62 at 2021-01-09 01:29:29.603524+00:00 running d8cca48 country code: GB. Do you participate in any of that? So you haven’t had much luck with women and have resigned yourself to believing ‘girls just don’t like me’. 8 Questions | By JasmineB98 | Last updated: Nov 6, 2020 | Total Attempts: 5118 . if a man friendzones you, it's because of your looks. They could just think you Latinas don't like white guys so they don't try, they may be a bit scared of how assertive and loud you can be (lol), and they aren't as assertive as the typical don juan Spanish guy in going up to random Latinas and hitting on them. It's hard but it works. It's hard to know if you're a guy-magnet or not. use the following search parameters to narrow your results: Has something terrible happened in your life? If you would like to get off the ban list you can message the mods. If you come across as “oh woe is me. Do Guys Find Me Attractive? if a guy ever came up to me and said hi, i would think he lost a bet and wouldn't take him seriously. Anecdotal evidence aside, I know for a fact that I don't find "hot" men attractive. Start. Don't think you can't be the one who aproches them, that may be all you need to do, I am friends with all the girls (and a few of them are telling me what to write right now), so I've seen this before, one of my friend had not been able to do this and I talked to her and tried to get her out of her shell, and she now has a boyfriend, just try to talk to them, they won't bite (they may bite) C. No, they prefer my friends. Again, if I approached girls only based off the fact that they’re attractive or I’m interested I’d be doing nothing but that. Oh, but not for you. I was a lot like you in highschool, except guys who knew I liked them used me to get answers on tests and shit like that. I love Matthew Hussey. Do guys stumble over to talk to you? I am attracted to white and Asian guys but I feel like white guys don't find me attractive. Try just being friends and getting to know them first and if you guys click then make that approach happen. Reply; 1.2.1. lol. Just because no one whistles at you as you cross a street, doesn't mean some other women do not enjoy it. Looking pretty is not enough. Photo: Getty Images . Minimal makeup is sexier. But in the mean time, I'm going to tell you how you're wrong not because I want you to feel bad about being wrong, but because I want you to arm yourself with ideas you can use to keep the thought spirals at bay. Never. Otherwise, we will try to check as often as possible to get it out. Depending on the community, this standard can be unhealthily high. It wasn't easy; I don't have great self-discipline. As strange as it sounds, if you are altruistic and you hate lies, then other people find you very attractive. It’s done by getting rid of all the bullshit beliefs and habits you have that have been holding you back. Spending time with someone who is always a sad sock becomes draining over time, and eventually they pull away so that they can spend time with other, more positive individuals. This is in no way me claiming to be super attractive - I’m average, but I know I dress nicely and am good with hair/makeup so pull myself together reasonably well. im always alone. (the reason I posted this pic is so no one here tells me go to the gym because I already do and it hasn't helped me to get a girl to find me attractive after almost a year now) im really just depressed , don't know what to do anymore . Don't go through it alone! ... nobody my age seems to find me attractive/approaches me... What am I doing wrong? or Create Personality Quiz. And she says "sadly I'm working :/" and we go back and forth like that until I realize I'm going to die alone. Trust me, people mature a lot after high school. i lost count of how many times a guy said to me "i noticed that youre interested in me but i just see you as a friend". 8. Nobody likes me”…. So, the very first thing you need to do is: Don’t Look Sick, and Don’t Smell Sick. Tldw (it’s only like five mins, not bad at all you should): men don’t want to be creepy. Let me give you an example. But of course, don't forget about being tactful. If you will allow me to make an educated guess, it is that men do find you attractive! ... i think i am a good-looking person but i still want to know if others find me attractive. Don’t worry though, there’s a light at the end of this tunnel. There might be one or two dudes out there who are into the blue arm pit hair and multiple facial piercings. Please do not offer or ask for any financial donations. every time i see a couple i want to cry. You don't have to go as deep as Scarlett Johansson's voice, but her voice might be more attractive to most men than, say, Kim Kardashian's voice. Yeah, in modern times, guys can’t just cold approach without being called a creep, or a even worse like catching a case for harassment or something like that. Of course, none of the guys are going to find you all that attractive either. I guess I must be intimidating or something because white guys just don't approach me. It sounds that you are strong and smart, but short-tempered and improper. My friends get hit on and I actually see guys checking them out, but never happens to me. Self confidence is extremely attractive. nothing changed. It is a safe place to be where you don’t have to face other people, hold a conversation, or face rejection. Thankfully, women definitely don’t reject good men in favor of bad men. Well you might be right, but not for the reasons you think. He tries to get her to like him, before she is attracted to him . i just want someone to be with me. Una likes them latino and Dos and I like them white. i hate looking in the mirror. it's my nose. This subreddit is also great for those who get gratification out of helping others. Talk amongst fellow Redditors who would be happy to help. Please make an appointment to talk with a counselor who can help you get out of negative thought spirals. Una likes them latino and Dos and I like them white. I was suffering from horrible anxiety and barely left my room, but I still expected a guy to fall into my lap and constantly wondered if I was completely unfuckable or hideous. why? I feel confident to walk away from situations and men that don’t serve me, and to give men feedback if they do something I don’t like. Once you hit the professional world or college, whichever you choose to do, people start to judge you on the merit of your soul rather than how you look physically. too ugly for a committed relationship. ... THEN women will find me attractive. i'm ugly. Just a new way to view rejection. elena October 17, 2018, 1:18 pm. … Here are some of the many reasons why good guys get rejected by women: 1. Keep semi initiating, there is nothing wrong with that. It’s just done so that she will like him. So it could be a lot of things. 800-273-TALK (8255), For those who don't mind a harsher approach, try /r/HowToNotGiveAFuck. 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